I feel like I finally started what I came here to do. Today
was my first chance to teach English to anyone and it feels nice to actually do
something philanthropic… So much of what I have done in the past 16 days has
completely revolved around what I want- what I want to do, see, experience. Its
nice to have such freedom, but I’ve come to realize that without a purpose in
our lives (though to this point it has been experiencing all that I can) the
sense of accomplishment seems to fade away. I’ve done so much in the past
couple of weeks but I guess I don’t like everything being so egocentric all of
the time. Today that changed completely.
We officially started our teaching duties this morning and
it was awesome. One thing that I didn’t realize is that English tutoring was
also available to anyone who sought it out, regardless of age or level. This
afternoon a group of older kids (calling them kids feels a bit weird since they
were 19, 20 and 23) came to the Peace House for 2 and a half hours for a
lesson. It makes sense that you could get English lessons at any age… The
lessons are really open format which is hard because there is no structure
whatsoever, and on top of that you have no idea how much English any of them
actually know. We played a few get to know you games really just learned about
one another for the first 30 minutes. I found out Thao and Phoun were both at
university and lived with their parents. They were both studying some form of
business- Thao studies marketing and commerce and Phoung, real estate. Its
great because with my own background in business I think I was able to give
them some good business practice. Hung was no longer in school but was
preparing for interviews which if passed, would allow him to go on to flight
school and become a pilot.
I found it pretty inspiring that those three had such big
dreams and were really tackling them head on by studying English in their free
time… It was honestly fun to talk to them. I thought that Phoung knew little to
no English, but it turns out was just extremely shy and didn’t like speaking in
front of the group because she was self conscious. Makes sense. So when the
lesson devolved from structured practice to just conversation (which is
extremely useful because just putting them in a social setting where they are
forced to use English with someone who has lots of practice, is a great way to
learn) I had a great talk with her about everything under the sun. Food, music,
movies, sports, school… I feel like I know her so well. We used spare sheets of
paper to draw pictures or just pantomime clues to each other until we were on
the same page. And it was pretty fun to teach her about my home and learn about
hers. Im going to really enjoy teaching here.
After the lesson concluded and we scarfed down some pork,
steamed rice and some sort of omelet thing. The crew hit the streets for a
night time walk and we bought an extensive collection of bootlegged dvds… 75
cents a piece. Down time is pretty necessary here and we are all looking
forward to sharing our favorite movies with each other…
hi Dave; enjoying your blog tremendously. I tride to send yesterday but somehow didnt get thru (you know how us old duds are with new technoledgy? any way lovin to hear about your experience. We have had our share of snow the last few days (over two feet) and were getting tired of shoveling. Stay safe. love Gram & Pop
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DeleteHi Dave! I agree - it feels good to share!; and it IS fun to talk to people from a different culture! I am wishing I was there with you!!! ...Yea, just what you would want! Haha.
ReplyDeleteI know the purpose during the sessions is to speak English so that your students are getting the benefit of having you there - but I think you should make opportunities and challenge yourself to speak as much vietnamese as you can on your 'off' time. Even if you feel self-conscious like Phoung. ...I just have a feeling that you might regret not taking this opportunity to do so. Talk to you again soon :-) Mom
Ah man I love omelette things! Glad to know you are spreading our western ways
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ice ice baby. the food here is borderline crazy... eating fish with the scales on, eggs with partially developed chicks, blood clots, you get the idea. i gladly welcome plain white rice most meals
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